helping your teenagers to be successful

When teenagers rebel to their parents, it may be frustrating to parents and other caring adults to find ways to talk to and support teenagers through this hard time. Any parent or person who works with teenagers knows that adolescence can be a tough time. Adults can sometimes feel like adolescents are always facing a crisis or are worried about school, self-esteem and their future; however there are some guidelines that can help the teenagers. One is external assets. There are some support, empowerment, boundaries and constructive use of assets. Parents should make them feel that they are doing good, if they do some wrong stuff, they need to tell them calmly instead of shouting on them. And make their confidence level high.  Another is internal assets. There are commitment to leading positive values and social competencies. It is important for parents to inspire their children with a sense of purpose in life. Without purpose most teenagers tend to drift along, not knowing the direction they wish to take. Teenagers have clear idea of where their interests. They just need support to do that. There is the most supporting role is their parents. Also their friends can support them. Sometimes some friends are destructed but other hand they are helpful.